A YOUNG woman has told how she received a list of 15 pointers on how she could improve from a Tinder date from hell – months after their ill-fated rendezvous.
Twenty-four-year-old Kimberley Latham-Hawkesford was left “mortified” after the lad delivered a brutal assassination of everything from her physical appearance to her character.
Messaging her out of the blue, three months after they went out together, he suggested she needed to lose weight, show off more cleavage and wear less make-up.
He added that she seemed “a bit stuck up”, adding that she needed to “sort” her personality out.
Kimberley, from Morecambe, Lancs, met up with the man at a Costa coffee shop. First impressions were good and they headed to a pub for food.
Speaking to LadBible, she said the first warning signs appeared during the meal, when he asked if she would consider having plastic surgery.
He also took great offence when she offered to pay, delivering the ultimate douchebag move by showing her his bank balance on his phone.
After three months of no contact, she received the bombshell list of ‘tips’
The lad told her she might “look incredible” if she shed about a stone in weight.
He added: “A bit of fake tan wouldn’t hurt.”
Kimberley was also told to make more of her ‘assets’.
The lad wrote: You have quite big boobs so you should show off your cleavage more.”
Her wardrobe needs some work too, apparently. Specifically, she should wear clothes that “suit her figure”.
He added: “Just so I’m not embarrassed to be seen with you.”
Lip fillers, a new hair colour and extensions would also help her case, he told her.
He called her a “prude” for not kissing him on their first date, adding that it “messed” with his ego. “Be more sensitive to others,” he added.
Ramping up the personal attack, he said he should avoid talking about her past because he “doesn’t care about it” and accused her of not having a sense of humour because she did not laugh at his jokes.
For his grand closing, he insulted her for offering to pay for the meal.
He said: “You made me feel s**t when you offered to pay. It’s like you thought I didn’t have enough money after telling you how much is in my account.”
And if she nailed every one of his pointers, he “might consider” another date. Lucky Kimberley.
She told LadBible: I couldn’t understand how a guy could say such things to a woman. My only tip for him is to respect women as his behaviour is disgusting.”